It started with a podcast. It didn't stop there.
"Hey Man; It's Ok" exists to be a trusted starting point for men who want to understand their mental health, find practical support, and hear honest stories from people who have been there.
We're not a hospital, a hotline, or a replacement for therapy. We're the friend who's done some homework — the one who says "it's ok to not be ok" and then actually helps you figure out what to do next.
The podcast is evolving — not ending
For two years, this was a show: two guys and a microphone, breaking the stigma one conversation at a time. Those conversations taught us something — the episode was never the point. The point was the man on the other side of it going, "that's me. I thought I was the only one."
So we're building the thing those conversations were always pointing at: a resource hub. The interviews keep happening — and now each one feeds articles, guides, and a library you can actually navigate when you need it, instead of scrubbing through hours of audio at 2am.
Every episode stays right where it is, in the Podcast Archive. What's new: a guided Start Here path when you don't know what you need, topics instead of timestamps, and The Mental Mechanic — Ryan's clinical knowledge in shop-floor language.
The Team
Sky Bridges
Founder, Storyteller & Mental Health AdvocateAfter suffering the loss of loved ones to suicide, Sky founded HMIO to bring light to the darkness. He brings the relatable, raw, and honest perspective of a man navigating his own mental health journey.
Ryan Heapy, LMFT
Clinical Contributor & The Mental MechanicA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a history in the high-stress world of events. Ryan bridges the gap between clinical expertise and real-world application — evidence-based insights (DBT, EMDR) in plain English, including his recurring column, The Mental Mechanic.
Josh Cutler, LICSW
Editor, Producer & Clinical ContributorA seasoned healthcare administrator, published author, and licensed psychotherapist. Josh shapes our editorial standards, reviews clinically sensitive material, and writes The Salty Social Worker.
How we make what you read here
Grounded in real conversations
Interview-based features must stick to what was actually said. Our editorial process requires guests to confirm their quotes and how their story is told before publication.
Clinical review
New clinical articles require review by Ryan or Josh, with the reviewer and date recorded. 6 earlier Knowledge Base articles remain available with a visible “Clinical review pending” notice while review and sources are checked.
Honest about AI
Some drafts use AI editing assistance. Our editorial process requires disclosure, guest confirmation for interview-based work, and clinical review of clinical claims before approval.
Checked and maintained
We check resource links on a schedule and flag blocked or unavailable pages for human review. Directory dates record the last review of service details; a reachable website alone does not verify a phone number, cost, or clinical claim.
Labeled for what it is
Reviewed Knowledge Base articles are labeled as a personal story, professional opinion, or evidence-informed guide. Earlier articles awaiting that review say so. Podcast conversations and external personal essays are presented separately.
Never a diagnosis
Nothing on this site can tell you what condition you do or don't have, and none of it is a substitute for professional care. We say so, everywhere it matters.
Questions, corrections, or want to share your story? Sky@heymanitsok.com